“I Love You”. These are words we all have heard many times in our life. We mostly throw these words out within a blink of an eye…… without even thinking for a fraction of a second.
“You are the only one who touched my heart. I never felt like this before. I swear to god, last one was just a crush (and probably after some time I’ll say the same about you to someone else!)”
Relationships now-a-days are just like this.
Step 1: You feel for someone.
Step 2: You two get along together.
Step 3: You get bored (or probably pissed off due to zero compatibility issues).
Step 4: You breakup.
And the cycle starts again from step 1.
Is this the love we talk about? People say, true love comes to your life only once in a life but now-a-days it happens once a week. :-p
I am not blaming anyone or don’t want to give any such statement where people would ask me “hey, why the hell are you talking like an aged women? Aren’t you a part of this genre?”
Talking about real experiences, a dear friend of mine after having 7 boyfriends, is now finally in love with the 8th one (let’s just hope everything just turns out good this time).
A girl (let’s just call her idiot#1) is madly and irrevocably in love with a guy. This guy doesn’t love her that way but just because she is a very nice friend, he calls her “more than a friend”. (Wtf, can anyone please give me the definition of more than a friend???) . Now this guy has a girlfriend but doesn’t want our idiot#1 to leave him as she provides him with everything she can, be it financial support or be it emotional support. Fooling both the girls and cheating on both surely isn’t the love at all, be it a lovers love or be it a friends love.
I encountered many morons in my life (No offence! Though they are innocent and sweet but yet can be easily fooled.) Another was a guy, who thought he found the love of his life and the day the gal said a “YES” was the biggest achievement of his life. The girl totally used her darling’s money for her own benefits and the innocent guy considered it as his privilege to spend his dad’s money on her. After a 3 month relationship, she broke his heart for someone richer and more handsome. The poor guy and the clever girl.
Love has become a status symbol more than a feeling as it used to be. People think they wont be considered cool enough if they are not hanging out with more than one at a time.
Our feelings stand nowhere in front of the fake world where we people are now-a-days living.
So my friends, love and live but do not love or trust blindly, else you yourself are responsible for the effects afterwards . And for those who consider it cool to fool a decent person,
“I feel sorry you were born a moron”.